French culture and ‘savoir-vivre’: the rules you need to know

Understanding French customs as a student: what "Savoir-vivre" is about

If you're an international student looking forward to studying and working in France, mastering French culture (or "etiquette") will take you a long way. As a matter of fact, mastering the "French way of doing things" isn’t just about following rules, but is also a valuable tool for building connections. It can help you create stronger bonds with French locals (and fellow international students in the same situation as you)! Moreover, making an effort to understand and practice French savoir-vivre will reflect well on you and allow you to integrate smoothly into French life.

Your guide to the French art of politeness and good manners

• Bonjour [bon·zhoor]: In France, saying "Bonjour" (hello) is essential in almost every social interaction, whether you’re entering a classroom, store, or social gathering. If it’s later in the day, you can also say "Bonsoir" (good evening). 
• Greetings: While formal settings usually involve handshakes, informal settings may call for the "bise", AKA two cheek kisses, one on each cheek, or more depending on the region. Since the pandemic, the culture around the bise has become more flexible in France, but it’s still wise to be prepared to greet others in the way that’s appropriate for the setting.
• Vous vs. Tu: In French, there are two ways to say "you": vous (formal) and tu (informal). Vous is used to address professors, supervisors, or anyone in a formal context, as well as people you’re meeting for the first time. Tu is more casual, used among friends or family. When in doubt, it’s best to start with vous to show respect, especially in academic or professional environments. If someone invites you to use tu, you can follow suit!
• Dining etiquette: When seated with others, wait until everyone has been served before starting to eat. Table manners are also important in French culture—avoid resting your elbows on the table, and refrain from eating with your hands unless it’s casual food like sandwiches or burgers. Tipping is appreciated in cafés and restaurants in France, but usually a small amount (around 5-10%) is fine.
• Punctuality and time: Punctuality is highly valued in academic and professional life settings: being late to class or an internship could be seen as unprofessional in France. Social events, however, are often more relaxed—arriving slightly late is usually acceptable and even expected in some cases (so that your hosts can benefit from these precious extra minutes to get fully ready to welcome their guests). 
• For students living in shared housing: If you're sharing a flat, respecting your roommates' needs is essential. Cleanliness is always expected, and quiet hours should be observed, especially at night on week days. Small gestures like cleaning up after cooking or offering to share a meal or an "apéro" will go a long way in building positive relationships with your French housemates!

Common "Faux Pas" (mistakes) and how to avoid them:

In France, certain conversation topics are best avoided when you’re just getting to know someone. Avoid discussing politics, money, or religion early in conversations. Instead, focus on subjects that are often more universally enjoyed, such as art, culture, travel, or current events.

When starting an internship in France, international students are expected to approach their role with professionalism. Work hours in France typically span from 9 a.m. to 6 p.m., with a one- to two-hour lunch break. Punctuality is highly valued in French culture: arriving on time for both daily work and meetings is essential to showing respect for your colleagues. On special days like your first or your last at work, feel free to bring croissants or chouquettes for your team as a kind gesture. 

FAQ 

What is a famous tradition or event in France?

One well-known tradition in France is la fête nationale (Bastille Day) on July 14, commemorating the French Revolution. Parades, fireworks, and gatherings across the country make it one of the most festive days of the year. 

What is important in French culture?

Appreciation for art and cuisine, for French history, for friendly conversations and the values of Liberté, Égalité, Fraternité (Liberty, Equality, Fraternity) are central to French culture.

What is typical French culture like?

Typical French culture includes a love for good food and wine, for art and music, and for intellectual discussions.

How has French culture influenced the world?

French culture has had a global impact on fashion, art, cinema, philosophy, and cuisine. French thinkers, artists, and chefs have shaped cultural movements worldwide, from the Renaissance to modern fashion and gastronomy.